I've said, probably countless times, that we're not generally very willingly social. But the work we do has changed, to a degree, the way we see other people: sometimes, it isn't all about us.
Last day in Bristol, Barley Mow just seemed the right way to go - super relaxing, guaranteed good beer - that's what we want.
It was busy - really quite busy.
The fire was lit and our corner was occupied so we sat on the opposite side of that room at the corner of the big tables where we could also see the fire. Nice.
Because it was busy, it was reasonably noisy so we decided a simple game of Regicide would fit the bill.
A lad approached and asked whether he could sit in the space opposite - obviously he was welcomed.
About halfway through our first game he asked what we were playing (this is a common question) - and were inevitably pulled into a conversation about what brought us all to the pub, etc, etc.
Turns out the lad was a student at UoB and because it was half term (Uni's have HALF TERM now?????) all his friends had gone back home but he had labwork he had to do - so he was stuck at his accommodation and decided to have a wander to new pubs - and he found out about the Temple Meads brewery and pub concentration.
It definitely wasn't the evening we expected. Did we really welcome it? I'm not sure. We didn't need the conversation but it is good for us to exercise those muscles from time to time. Also, it's never nice to contemplate what someone might be going through if they're feeling a little bit isolated and needing to have a bit of human connection.
It takes some oomph to make that first approach, especially if it's not your usual MO.
He was a really nice chap and it was nice to encourage him to try the other places (plus a few more he hadn't heard of) in the area.
That the beer was good, largely goes without saying but the Mega Mosaic was, again, absolutely fantastic.
We're now back in Sussex and I'm quite keen to have a quiet evening on the sofa.